Why should our shuyukh be more in touch with our community and culture?

Why should our shuyukh be more in touch with our community and culture?

It is important for those teaching the deen to their community to be in touch with it. In fact, Allah Almighty talked about this openly in Surat Ibrahim when He said:

 ‘Wa ma ‘arsalna mir-rasoulin ‘illa bi-lisani qaw-mihee

 ‘We have never sent a messenger but in the language of his people’. [14:4]

The delivery of the message is only effective when it is in the language of its people

Language is for communication and it’s so crucial to understand the community you are teaching.

We see this again in the story of Musa (peace be upon him), he spent 10 years away from his community, when he left for Madyan and met Prophet Shuaib (peace be on him) and married his daughter. On his way back to Egypt, he received the message from Allah Almighty. The first thing he asked, when he made his memorable dua: Rabbish rahli sadri wa yassirli amri wah lul uqdatan min lisaani, yaf kahu kauliAllah was to appoint a helper for him to support him in the delivery of the message. And who was that helper? Harun, his brother.

رَبِّ اشْرَحْ لِي صَدْرِي وَيَسِّرْ لِي أَمْرِي وَاحْلُلْ عُقْدَةً مِنْ لِسَانِي يَفْقَهُوا قَوْلِي

وَاجْعَل لِّي وَزِيرًا مِّنْ أَهْلِي

هَارُونَ أَخِي

اشْدُدْ بِهِ أَزْرِي

My Lord, expand for me my breast [with assurance] and ease for me my task and untie the knot from my tongue that they may understand my speech. And appoint an assistant for me, from my family. Aaron, my brother. Strengthen me with him. (20:25-31)

Strengthen me with him

Commentators have a fascinating take on this. They noted that he asked Allah Almighty to send him a helper whom he could trust because he had been away from the community for 10 years. So was not in touch with what was going on, who was doing what, the latest trends and rumours and issues, and who was now leading the way. In order to be an effective leader, you need to know the inside situation of your community and who best to tell him the real story without any exaggeration, without any purpose and additions etc. It is important to understand this story in order to see that for the real delivery of the real message to the people, you need to understand the community where you operate.

Shuyukh need to have their finger on the pulse

I can tell you from my own experience and compare me to myself 30 years ago when I was studying in Syria and then in Lebanon and then back here. I was different. Very different. I went through different stages. The community where I was studying in Syria was different from the community in Beirut, Lebanon where I am from and different from the community here, in the UK. I went through different experiences and learned what issues faced each community – what each community needed, their concerns and felt the pulse of the community. It’s very important to check the pulse and see what’s going on.

Being out of touch causes more problems than it solves

I witnessed unfortunately in this country and I’m sure some of you do also remember this where there was a fashion or a trend that students went abroad to study Sharia and then came back and imposed the mentality of where they had studied to a community where those lessons did not fit. Much of the material they studied, apart from the classical sources, was not relevant.  They did not come back equipped with the tools that would help them deliver the message that suited people’s needs.

Consequently we witnessed factions and friction and trouble in universities, mosques, communities, and families. We witnessed the breakdown of marriages because of this. Then it was also very trendy to host foreign speakers. Every week, every month, there were lists of speakers, some of them masha’Allah great speakers, with great delivery, but some of them were nonsense, delivering the wrong fatwas, giving the wrong advice, sending people in the wrong direction and people followed. I was so sad to witness this. Alhamdullilah it’s not like that now, but we still have some traces. Insha’Allah our community will recover after some time, insha’Allah ta’ala.

The prophetic way

The Prophet (peace be on him) did not live in an ivory tower nor was he confined to the mosque. In our terms today, he watched the news and did his homework. He was not just au fait with what was happening in his community but also kept abreast with what was going on further afield, and political scene, with the Romans and the Persians and. Afterall his message universal, and so he had to have a plan to reach as many nations as possible.

The best leaders are not hermits – cut off from the world

There was a teacher who had many followers whom I went to meet when he was in town, and he was so generous but I was put off by him when he said that he had not followed the news for the last ten years.

A leader must not be out of touch with reality. He must know what is going on. He can’t be living on a different planet or asking people to live on a different planet. This is a red flag. This is not how the Prophet (peace be on him) was. And Allah told us to follow him.

The best ambassadors

The Prophet (peace be on him) picked the best people to represent the message of Islam when he sent them as ambassadors. He carefully chose those who had the best looks and appearance, the language and eloquence and the skills for the job. He asked them to learn the language of the communities they were being sent to. The Prophet (peace be on him) would make dua for them to do this and they would learn the language in just a few months.

When we are giving dawah, turning up with a long beard, a short abaya and old trainers is not the right way. It is not the sunnah, as some people mistakenly believe. You are representing the message of Allah. The sunnah is having the right character, right education and understanding and being presentable.

Shaykh Haytham Tamim – The Thursday Al Ghazali Class

Transcribed by Rose Roslan

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Shaykh Haytham Tamim is the founder and main teacher of the Utrujj Foundation. He has provided a leading vision for Islamic learning in the UK, which has influenced the way Islamic knowledge is disseminated. He has orchestrated the design and delivery of over 200 unique courses since Utrujj started in 2001. His extensive expertise spans over 30 years across the main Islamic jurisprudence schools of thought. He has studied with some of the foremost scholars in their expertise; he holds some of the highest Ijazahs (certificates) in Quran, Hadith (the Prophetic traditions) and Fiqh (Islamic rulings). His own gift for teaching was evident when he gave his first sermon to a large audience at the age of 17 and went on to serve as a senior lecturer of Islamic transactions and comparative jurisprudence at the Islamic University of Beirut (Shariah College). He has continued to teach; travelling around the UK, Europe and wider afield, and won the 2015 BISCA award (British Imams & Scholars Contributions & Achievements Awards) for Outstanding Contribution to Education and Teaching.