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Time is more precious than money. What is your plan for this year?

Time is more precious than money. What is your plan for this year?

Allah Almighty said in Surat al Muminoon:

فَإِذَا نُفِخَ فِي الصُّورِ فَلَا أَنسَابَ بَيْنَهُمْ يَوْمَئِذٍ وَلَا يَتَسَاءَلُونَ

قَالَ كَمْ لَبِثْتُمْ فِي الْأَرْضِ عَدَدَ سِنِينَ

قَالُوا لَبِثْنَا يَوْمًا أَوْ بَعْضَ يَوْمٍ فَاسْأَلِ الْعَادِّينَ

قَالَ إِن لَّبِثْتُمْ إِلَّا قَلِيلًا ۖ لَّوْ أَنَّكُمْ كُنتُمْ تَعْلَمُونَ

أَفَحَسِبْتُمْ أَنَّمَا خَلَقْنَاكُمْ عَبَثًا وَأَنَّكُمْ إِلَيْنَا لَا تُرْجَعُونَ

When the Horn is blown, no relations between them will exist on that Day, and they will not ask after one another. [23:101]

He will say, “How many years did you remain on earth?” [23:112]

They will say, “We remained a day, or part of a day; but ask those who keep count.” [23:113]

He will say, “You remained only for a little while, if you only knew. [23:114]

Did you think that We created you in vain, and that to Us you will not be returned?” [23:115]

What did you prepare for the Day?

In these verses, Allah is talking about the Day of Resurrection. The theme which we see in these verses is time. Allah Almighty is addressing disbelievers, especially those who deny the Hereafter. This is why when Allah says the Horn will be blown, everyone will be resurrected from their graves, and Allah will ask disbelievers, not the believers, because they thought they would live forever and who did not prepare for this Day, how many years they remained on earth. Was it 60, 70, 100? They reply it might have been a day or part of a day. Ask those who keep count.

Why can’t people remember how long they stayed in this world?

When we reflect on this ayah it puzzles us – why did the disbelievers tell Allah to ask those who keep count? It is because they were so immersed in dunya that they did not care about time and they did not think they would ever be held accountable for it. So they say to Allah He should ask those who were concerned about counting the days and hours. This is the big lesson. Allah is teaching us a lesson from the example of those who deny the Hereafter. The Quran does not just teach us lessons from believers, but can teach us from the example of disbelievers as well.

Those who were oblivious of the Day did not prepare for it

These verses show us the mentality of those who had no qualms about oppressing others, stealing, depriving others of their rights, imprisoning them, simply because they thought they could get away with it. They thought they had the power and were backed by the system. Corruption was rife and they protected their self-interests by hook and by crook. They simply did not care. Allah says ‘if only you knew’ law annakum kuntum ta’lamun what was to come. Allah Almighty repeats this phrase in 11 verses over 9 surahs.

‘If only you knew’

We are just 81 days from Ramadan, and in the verses of fasting in Surat al Baqarah, Allah Almighty says:

وَأَن تَصُومُوا۟ خَيْرٌۭ لَّكُمْ ۖ إِن كُنتُمْ تَعْلَمُونَ

But to fast is best for you, if you only knew. [2:184]

If they had known what was to come would spare suffering in the Hereafter. Why did Allah Almighty say ‘if only they knew’ then Allah Almighty sent the prophets and messengers to deliver the knowledge to them, so why did they not know? If someone is given knowledge but does not act upon it, then they may as well be ignorant. Knowledge has to be practiced, not kept as decoration in the house.

Invest time wisely

If only they had invested their time in this world they would have saved themselves in the Hereafter. Time is a value asset. More important than money is time, as they say in the financial world, time is money, but in fact time is more precious than that because time is life.

Reflect on what you have done over the past year

As the New Year is upon us, it is wise to reflect on the previous year. As Allah Almighty said:

O you who have believed, fear Allah. And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow – and fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do. [59:18]

Assess your losses and gains over the past year.

Acknowledge the blessings Allah has given you and be thankful for all that He has given you.

Be a person of optimism and not pessimism. Optimism is contagious and so is pessimism. Be optimistic as Allah taught us in Surat al Fatihah, which we recite every day, we praise Allah and show gratitude to Him from the very first word:

Praise be to Allah, Lord of the Worlds. [1:2]

See the goodness Allah has bestowed on all of us. We have some hiccups and challenges in our life, but this is just one part of the picture. The bigger picture is that we are enveloped by the gifts and blessings of Allah.

Look back to and evaluate yourself: see the good that you have done and be thankful, and fix the shortcomings.

Divide your assessment of the past year into three sections:

How was your relationship with Allah?

Was it good or bad? Did it fluctuate like the Bitcoin? Some people’s relationship spikes in Ramadan and then crashes like digital currencies. We need to be consistent.

How was your relationship with people? Your spouse, parents, family and friends?

Look for the goodness and the gaps. Repent for the mistakes you made. If they were between Allah and you, then do tawbah, if they were with people then performing 100 rakahs during the night does not solve it, you need to ask those whom you wronged for forgiveness so Allah can forgive you.

Check your financial position

You need to know what is halal and what is haram. Do not let calamities and financial pressures, particularly at this time of austerity let you justify to yourself anything that is haram. A difficult time is not a licence to bend the rules, urged on by the whispers of Shaytan.

In reality, times have always been hard – that is the nature of tests. We need to seek the halal and avoid the haram. Haram is not just taking interest or selling alcohol. There are many ways to err when earning money, so you need to be informed about what is permissible or not in financial transactions. We need to seek halal earnings and keep our wealth free of the haram. As salah is not accepted if we do not the know the conditions of validity, financial transactions also have conditions that make them valid.

We all need to learn and educate ourselves about financial matters in Islam as we do Continuous Professional Development for our work.

How many melons are you planning to carry?

Usually we make long lists at the start of the year, but as we say in Arabic, if you try to carry too many melons in one hand you will inevitably drop them.

Plan ahead

Focus on the three or four areas which you will take stock of again as above at the end of next year:

1. Your worship – your salah, fasting, Zakat and Hajj. Improve your khushoo in salah. Work on getting out of the habit of autopilot salah. Improve your relationship with the Quran.

2. Improve your family relationships. Start with your parents, spouse, children and relatives in that order.

3. Work on your character. When you are under pressure it reveals your gaps and you see what you are truly made off. Are you strong or do you break? Our role model is the Prophet (peace be upon him). We need to model ourselves on him by learning more about him.

You can read Tirmidhi’s Shamail about his character and Our Master Muhammad by the late Shaykh Abdullah Siraj, As-Shifa by Qadi Iyyad, and Zahrul Khamail by Imam Suyuti, which is a summary of Shamail and easy to read with your children.

Don’t make a long list. Make a targeted list of a few things.

It is easy to make lists but the difficulty is it’s implementation. Imam Ghazali said it is easy to give advice but the problem is accepting it.

We need to make sincere supplication to Allah. Sincerity is the supersonic vehicle that delivers you to your goals.

Beg Allah for His support and say you can’t do this without Him. He is always there.

We ask Allah to make us prepared for the Hereafter and to follow the footsteps of the Prophet (peace be upon him).

Shaykh Haytham Tamim Khutbah 20th Dec 2022

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Shaykh Haytham Tamim is the founder and main teacher of the Utrujj Foundation. He has provided a leading vision for Islamic learning in the UK, which has influenced the way Islamic knowledge is disseminated. He has orchestrated the design and delivery of over 200 unique courses since Utrujj started in 2001. His extensive expertise spans over 30 years across the main Islamic jurisprudence schools of thought. He has studied with some of the foremost scholars in their expertise; he holds some of the highest Ijazahs (certificates) in Quran, Hadith (the Prophetic traditions) and Fiqh (Islamic rulings). His own gift for teaching was evident when he gave his first sermon to a large audience at the age of 17 and went on to serve as a senior lecturer of Islamic transactions and comparative jurisprudence at the Islamic University of Beirut (Shariah College). He has continued to teach; travelling around the UK, Europe and wider afield, and won the 2015 BISCA award (British Imams & Scholars Contributions & Achievements Awards) for Outstanding Contribution to Education and Teaching.