Why should our shuyukh be more in touch with our community and culture?
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Why should our shuyukh be more in touch with our community and culture?

It is important for those teaching the deen to their community to be in touch with it. In fact, Allah Almighty talked about this openly in Surat Ibrahim when He said:  ‘Wa ma ‘arsalna mir-rasoulin ‘illa bi-lisani qaw-mihee  ‘We have never sent a messenger but in the language of his people’. [14:4] The delivery of…

ghazali on backbiting
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Ghazali on Backbiting – why people do it, when you can do it, how to stop doing it

Imam Ghazali’s book Kitaab Al-Arba’in Fi Usul ad-Din, The 40 Principles of the Faith is a summary of his great work, Ihya Ulumuddin which he wrote before he died. In the chapter on the purification of the heart, he breaks down the traits we need to excise from ourselves, and begins by focusing on the…

What is wrong with laughing too much? The boundaries of comedy
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What is wrong with laughing too much? The boundaries of comedy

Excessive laughter The Messenger (peace be upon him) said: “Do not laugh too much, for verily excessive laughter kills the heart.” (Bukhari, Adab al-Mufrad; Sunan Tirmidhi; Sunan Ibn Maja; Musnad Ahmad) And in some narrations, there is an addition, “For verily excessive laughter kills the heart and removes the light of one’s face,” or in…

Do you have to practice what you preach? Al Ghazali on how to correct others when they are wrong
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Do you have to practice what you preach? Al Ghazali on how to correct others when they are wrong

In Imam Ghazali’s Kitaab Al-Arba’in Fi Usul ad-Din, The Forty Principles of the Religion, he examines the concept of commanding what is good and reprimanding others from doing what is wrong, amr bil marouf wa al nahil anil munkar. Condition 1: Gentleness vs the whip The one who commands good and forbids evil, is called…

Command the good and forbid evil. Al Ghazali breaks down the principle.
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Command the good and forbid evil. Al Ghazali breaks down the principle.

Let there be a group among you who call ˹others˺ to goodness, encourage what is good, and forbid what is evil—it is they who will be successful. (3:104) The believers, both men and women, are guardians of one another. They encourage good and forbid evil, establish prayer and pay alms-tax, and obey Allah and His…

Be good to your relatives
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Be good to your relatives

In Imam Ghazali’s Kitaab Al-Arba’in Fi Usul ad-Din, The Forty Principles of the Religion, he explores how to deal with different people. In this section we will look at how to treat relatives. Blood ties are special ‘Abdu’r-Rahman ibn ‘Awf heard the Messenger of Allah (peace be on him) said: عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ،…

Ghazali’s 20 rules for dealing with people. Rules 16-18 Defend others in their absence, be tactful and be cautious of the company of the rich
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Ghazali’s 20 rules for dealing with people. Rules 16-18 Defend others in their absence, be tactful and be cautious of the company of the rich

Rules 16-20  for dealing with people Rule 16: Supporting your brother or sister in their absence In Imam al Ghazali’s Kitaab Al-Arba’in Fi Usul ad-Din, the 40 Principles in Religion, he sketches the the 20 rules for dealing with people in chapter 8. The sixteenth rule is to support others even in their absence. The…

Islamic rulings on shaking hands and contact between men and women

Islamic rulings on shaking hands and contact between men and women

In general do not shake hands with the opposite sex The default position is that you should not shake hands with non Mahrams of the opposite sex. Overall, there is no agreed on 100% prohibition, but it is disliked. All the narrations which talk about the prohibition of not shaking hands are weak, though some…

Ghazali’s 20 rules for dealing with people. Rules 14-15 Hurry to help others and initiate the salam.
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Ghazali’s 20 rules for dealing with people. Rules 14-15 Hurry to help others and initiate the salam.

Rule 14: Hurry to fulfil the needs of others The Prophet (peace be on him) said: Intercede with me for one another and be rewarded; for indeed I want to do a thing but put I off so that you may intercede with me and be rewarded. (Abu Dawood) Shafa means to intercede for someone….

Ghazali’s 20 rules for dealing with people. Rules 12-13 Cover the faults of others
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Ghazali’s 20 rules for dealing with people. Rules 12-13 Cover the faults of others

In Imam Ghazali’s Kitaab Al-Arba’in Fi Usul ad-Din, ‘The Forty Principles of the Religion’, he collates 20 rules of how to deal with people. Rule 12: Cover other people’s mistakes and sins It is one of principles of dealing with people is to cover their faults and sins, by not pointing them out to others…

Ghazali’s 20 rules for dealing with people. Rules 9-11 Deal according to their status.
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Ghazali’s 20 rules for dealing with people. Rules 9-11 Deal according to their status.

Rule 9. Do good to everyone, whether they are worthy of it or not  O you who have believed, bow and prostrate and worship your Lord and do good – that you may succeed (22:77) Spreading goodness is part of our identity as an ummah of khayr, as Allah called us. The bottom line is…