Can Muslims celebrate Christmas?
Though Muslims definitely believe in the Prophet Eesa (peace be on him), we don’t know the exact day of his birth and we don’t celebrate his birth or Christmas anyway.
Indeed we don’t celebrate the birthday of any prophet, including the Prophet Muhammad (peace be on him). Instead, we might deliver a talk about him to educate people about him and his sunnah and way of life. This would be in line with general guidance.
We need strong and deep knowledge of our prophets and messengers and we need to tell our children that though we believe in Eesa (peace be on him) as a prophet of Allah Almighty, we don’t celebrate his birthday. That is for Christians.
However living in a society, where Christmas is highlight of the year for the majority, it would be odd not to acknowledge that this is a special time for our neighbours, colleagues and friends.
Is it OK to wish someone Merry Christmas?
There has been negative media coverage about the fact that Muslims refuse to say ‘Merry Christmas’. Unfortunately Muslims often get bogged down by insignificant issues. It is not a big deal. We have many greater issues in life!
Non-Muslims send us good wishes at Eid and Ramadan, so we can send them good wishes too. This does not mean we share their belief. If they are nice to you on your Eid, then don’t reciprocate by being rude to them at their festival. Acknowledge the happy occasions in their life.
We can reciprocate the goodwill we receive from non Muslims on their days of happiness. We cannot say any phrase which contains anything against our beliefs or a form of worship. You can say, ‘Enjoy your time with your family’ or ‘Happy holidays’ or ‘Seasons greetings’ and similar phrases.
While we have serious ideological objections to the concept of Easter, which celebrates the resurrection of Christ and goes completely against our belief, the phrases ‘Merry Christmas’ and ‘Happy New Year’ are not related to belief. It is said by Christians and non Christians alike, as an expression of general good wishes, rather than a statement regarding belief or a ritual connected to shirk. Therefore saying ‘Merry Christmas’ should not create undue angst in the minds of Muslims.
In Islam we are taught to compete in doing good, and do return goodness with whatever is better. The Quran tells us to ‘Say and deliver what is best’.
Allah Almighty told us in Surat al Nisa:
When you are greeted with a salutation, greet with one better than it, or return the same. Surely, Allah is the One who takes account of everything. (4:86)
Can I send out Christmas cards?
As Muslims we are meant to be the ones who set an example of how to behave and extend courtesy to all. We are meant to spread goodness and to reciprocate goodness with equal if not better goodness. Generally Islam teaches us that if someone sends you a card, the best response is to send a gift. However, if you sending gifts be careful in the wording of your gift.
Can Muslims put up a Christmas tree?
Christmas trees and wreaths are symbols of a religious festival which is not Islamic, so you should not put up a Christmas tree in your house. Just as we wouldn’t put Hanukkah candles, or Diwali lights out on those days.
Can children take part in a nativity production at school?
It depends on the lyrics or script of the production. If the script of your child’s role is contradictory to our belief, speak to your teacher. Discuss it nicely with them, and explain that your child cannot do this role. It may be that they can have a different role, or you might prefer to withdraw your child, depending on the production.
In addition, we can create our own nativity as an alternative nativity, the Muslim version and tell it to our children. This has been happening for a few years in London.
Make Eid special
Within the year, in countries where birthdays, Christmas and Halloween are surrounded by much excitement and hype, we should make an effort to make Eid a day of fun and happiness for our children, without indulging in excessiveness and making it focused on materialism and consumerism.
Our children should look forward to Eid and also understand its religious significance. They should not have the impression that Islam is boring and yearn instead for non Islamic festivals.
Shaykh Haytham Tamim – Culture vs Islam (Western Culture) 2020
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