Hadith Umm Zar’: Dissecting good and bad marriages through a timeless story by Shaykh Haytham Tamim
£60.00
The Hadith of Umm Zar’ is a unique and profound narration that offers insights into marriage, relationships, and personal character. It provides a glimpse into the emotions, communication styles, and dynamics between spouses, offering lessons that remain relevant today. By studying this hadith, we gain a deeper understanding of human interactions, the importance of kindness, and how to build a fulfilling marital life.
15 hours
19 videos
- Insightful and relatable: Learn from this hadith about real-life marital challenges and solutions.
- Rooted in prophetic wisdom: Gain guidance from the teachings of the Prophet ﷺ.
- Practical lessons: Understand how to improve communication, emotional intelligence, and conflict resolution.
- Interactive and engaging: Includes discussions, case studies, and Q&A sessions.
Join us on this journey of self-discovery and relationship-building through the lens of Hadith Umm Zar’. Enrol now!
19 Sessions
Session 1: Introduction to Hadith Umm Zar’
- Understanding the hadith and its context
- The significance of storytelling in Islam
- The importance of healthy marital conversations
- The etiquette of gatherings and privacy
- Addressing gossip and backbiting
Session 2: Communication and emotional intelligence
- The etiquettes of private and public discussions
- Managing emotions in relationships
- Developing good communication skills
- Creating a healthy space for dialogue
Session 3: The role of ihsan in marriage
- The concept of ihsan (excellence) in marital relationships
- Avoiding gossip and maintaining privacy
- Recognising the individual needs of a spouse
Session 4: The First Wife – The miserly husband
- Understanding the four flaws in a husband
- The importance of generosity and financial responsibility
- Communication breakdowns and arrogance in marriage
Session 5: The Second Wife – A fearful marriage
- The impact of staying in an unhappy marriage
- Respect vs. fear: understanding the difference
- How to cultivate respect in relationships
Session 6: The Third Wife – The silent partner
- Recognising emotional distance in marriage
- Anxiety and communication struggles
- The importance of honesty in relationships
Session 7: The Fourth Wife – A balanced marriage
- The significance of harmony and tranquility
- Companionship and friendship in a healthy marriage
- The role of security and emotional safety
Session 8: The Fifth Wife – The Leopard
- Intimacy and emotional availability
- How generosity impacts relationships
- Understanding a husband’s viewpoint
Session 9: The Sixth Wife – Overeating and bad habits
- The etiquette of eating and drinking
- Addressing annoying habits in marriage
- Loneliness and emotional neglect
Session 10: The Seventh Wife – Domestic abuse
- Identifying harmful behaviours in a relationship
- Understanding patience vs. being a victim
- When to seek help and leave an abusive marriage
Session 11: The Eighth Wife – The Soft Rabbit
- The importance of personal hygiene and self-care
- The role of attraction in marriage
- Limits of beautification and modesty in Islam
Session 12: The Ninth Wife – The Generous Host
- Supporting a spouse’s status and responsibilities
- Generosity vs. extravagance
- Building a home that welcomes the community
Session 13: The Tenth Wife – The Powerful Husband
- The role of leadership and decision-making in marriage
- The balance between courage and recklessness
- Supporting spouses in their responsibilities
Session 14: The Story of Umm Zar’
- The love and respect between Umm Zar’ and her husband
- Divorce and remarriage: Islamic perspectives
- Lessons on nurturing a fulfilling relationship
Session 15: Stepchildren and household management
- Parenting in blended families
- The responsibility of raising children with fairness
- The ethics of treating employees with respect
Session 16: Khalwa, boundaries, and workplace ethics
- Understanding the Islamic boundaries of male-female interaction
- Workplace ethics and maintaining professional conduct
- The impact of nagging on relationships
Session 17: The virtue and remarriage of Umm Zar’
- What led to the end of Umm Zar’s marriage?
- Lessons from her story for modern relationships
- Understanding emotional closure and moving forward
Session 18: Extracting key lessons from Hadith Umm Zar’
- Reflections on each wife’s experience
- How to apply these lessons in our own lives
- Finding the right partner and maintaining a healthy marriage
Session 19: The deeper purpose of marriage in Islam
- Entering marriage with the right mindset
- Marriage as a journey towards the afterlife
- Choosing the right spouse and maintaining harmony
